Interview with Naibe Reynoso and Jennifer Vassel

Last week, we sat down with Naibe Reynoso of Con Todo Press, a Latina founded publishing company whose mission is to amplify voices of the Latinx community and other underrepresented communities. Jennifer chats with Naibe about “I Am Unique!”, tips for writers to become more comfortable putting their work out there, and upcoming projects coming down the pipeline. Tune in!

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  00:36

Hi Naibe

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso 01:00

Hi. How are you?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  01:02

Good. How are you?

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  01:03

I'm good. That's happened to me before. I don't know why that happens. Has that ever happened to you or you try to bring someone in and it says they have to upgrade their app?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  01:14

I have not had that happen. That's pretty weird. But glad we're here together now.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  01:20

Glad we're here. So thank you so much for joining and for agreeing to do this. So, first of all, Jennifer, tell us about I Am Unique Brands and what kind of books you publish?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  01:33

Yeah, so I Am Unique is a children's book and self-love brand, aimed to inspire kids and adults to overcome their insecurities and share their gifts with the world. And I wrote the book and the stories as a result of me being insecure about having my own birthmark. Something that I was really insecure about for about 10 years, I would say. And it's a birthmark that covers a quarter of my back and I was really insecure about it growing up. I wouldn't wear certain tops or dresses that exposed it but from my high school prom, I had the makeup artist even conceal my mark with foundation because I wanted to look absolutely beautiful that night. And so fast forward to today, I realized that no one should feel so insecure that they cover a piece of who they are. And the mission with I Am Unique is to whatever your insecurity is, it could be a birthmark like mine, a childhood scar, maybe something we can physically see. But the message is to overcome it and share your gifts with the world.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  02:32

Right, definitely. And I could totally relate to that because my daughter has a birthmark on her arm that she got when she was little because hot tea or hot coffee landed on her when she was learning how to walk. And it’s kind of always been a topic that I've addressed with her about her birthmark or actually not her birthmark, her burn scar because it is something that kids asked her about or have asked her about right and it can create all of these insecurities. So, I'm really glad that you created this book because I think our different marks whether it's a birthmark or a scar, make us unique and that's exactly what your whole brand is all about. I also like that you created a parent's guide and a Teacher's Guide to accompany your book. So tell us about what's in the parent’s guide and how parents can use it?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  03:31

Yeah, so the parent guide is like a supplemental book or guide to accompany the main story. And it has discussion questions and activities that parents can do with their kids before, during and after reading. Now, I Am Unique, the main themes are about goal setting and perseverance. And so, there are activities that kids could do with their parents to really drive the message and the themes of the book home.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  03:57

Right! And then you also did a Teacher's Guide, so teachers can also use it. Can you talk about the Teacher's Guide?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  04:03

Absolutely! So, the Teacher's Guide is similar to the parent guide in that it has discussion questions but it's more geared towards educators so that they can successfully integrate the book into their curriculum and so it's aligned to Common Core. It has discussion questions as well and also activities. So, it'll really help with the themes, carrying the themes throughout the book and also having an additional reinforcement of I Am Unique celebrating differences, how to accomplish your goals, how to set a goal and accomplish it. So, teachers and educators alike are able to have something that will supplement the materials and such a really important theme especially during these times and beyond.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  04:48

Right! So, I also heard that you're going to expand the book to a different audience. You're translating it into Spanish. So, talk to us about why that decision?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  04:57

Yeah, it was really important for me to expand in that way because self-love is a universal message, right? It's not unique to one particular individual. And I Am Unique in building a global brand, we want to reach as many people as possible. And the book is already translated in French through requests. And similarly, with Spanish, we've gotten so many requests from our customers asking “hey, is this available in Spanish?” And so, shout out to Mari who we've partnered with to get the book translated. If anyone is interested and being the first to know when the book launches, they can text IAUSPANISH to 33777 and they will be added to our mailing list. So, they will be the first to know when it launches.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  05:49

Perfect! I like that you kind of ran with this whole brand and you're creating workshops, you're coaching. You also have like this workshop about building self-confidence while pursuing your writing career. Before you answer that question, I'm curious, what was your like nine to five or your job before creating all of this?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  06:08

So, I am still a human resource professional. I'm still in the nine to five world, so I do juggle both of the worlds my entrepreneurial endeavors and then being an HR professional. So yeah, I'm still doing that to this day. The goal is to build this brand and to build multiple streams of revenue and to reach as many people as possible with this message,

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  06:31

Right! And you've had so much success, both you and I were at ALT Summit last year, speaking about publishing or different aspects of publishing. And for those of you that may not be familiar with ALT Summit, it's one of the most important female led conferences in the country. So that's really cool that we were both there. Hopefully, we'll be back and let you know, when COVID is completely gone and it'll go back to in person. So, I'd really love to see you there again and meet you in person. So now talk to us about how to build self-confidence while pursuing your writing career. Maybe give us some tips.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  07:10

Yeah, so three tips that I have is really to start sharing your story. The number one question that I get is definitely a frequently asked question is Jennifer, what inspired you to write this story? People are motivated by your why and so don't be afraid when you're pursuing your writing career to share your why. People fall in love with the why more than the what. So, share your story, share the why, share what inspired you because by you sharing your story and sharing the inspiration behind your brand in your book, it helps give others permission to do the same and to be brave enough to put themselves out there. The second tip that I would have is to write your big scary goals down. Write them down and put them in a place that's visible. For example, it could be something on your phone that you have as a daily reminder, you can post it in the bathroom. Someplace that you frequent so it's constantly in the forefront of your mind. And I'm such a huge proponent of writing vision statements. So, writing statements that I'm speaking my life into existence. Like I write statements that as if the thing has already happened. So, for example, at the top of the year, I wrote out exactly how I see my 2021 going and then at the end of the year, I will read it and see what has transpired. So, I think that's really important to do while you're pursuing your goals.

And then the last thing is to don't give up right. This is, it's hard. This is definitely not a walk in the park. This is something that you have to build courage and to put yourself out there and it doesn't happen overnight. You have to keep building that momentum and that confidence. And as you are in pursuit of your goals, the more you feel confident about your work and it really boils down to your mindset. If you don't have the right mindset going into publishing and writing and putting yourself out there. If you don't go into the right mindset you've already lost.

I talked about that at a workshop last week where I was talking to current and aspiring authors who are on the fence about self-promotion, putting their work out there, putting themselves out there. And so anybody who makes the investment today, they can save $20 on the two hour workshop. So, if anyone is interested in learning about marketing strategies, mindset, how to put themselves out there and be comfortable with it, you can go ahead and go to bit.ly/authormarketingworkshopdeal. Again its bit.ly/authormarketingworkshopdeal and you'll save $20 on the workshop replay as well as be interactive PDF workbook.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  09:58

And could they also find that link on your Instagram?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  10:02

Yes, if you go straight to my bio, click the link in my bio from Jennifer De Vassel, it'll be the first option there. So, feel free to peruse that. It definitely has gotten positive reviews and it helps people to build that strategy and build that confidence and putting their work out there while they're on the writing journey.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  10:22

Right. And one thing when I was reading your website that I loved was one of the things that kind of inspired you to jumpstart this passion and this vision was something that a pastor I believe, right? Can you repeat that because I think that was incredible. That was amazing.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  10:43

Yeah, so that quote was really the jumpstart to my writing and publishing career. So New Year's Eve 2012, I didn't go out that year. I just stayed at home and streamed my church service and Bishop Dale Bronner said, “don't die with your gifts still on the inside of you. Impart to others what was interested to you.”

Honestly, that lit a fire underneath me. That quote alone changed the trajectory of my life and career and ever since then I started beating the pavement at the top of the year in 2013. I started compiling poems and short stories that I had written from age 6 to 26 and later published my first poetry book called “My Channeled Energy”. And it became Amazon number one bestseller in two categories. So, for anybody out there who's on the fence about putting themselves out there or sharing their work, I would say really listen to that inner voice and whatever you were called to do. My gift is writing and sharing it in that way. But whatever your gift is, just promise yourself that you won't leave this earth without sharing that gift with the world.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  11:57

That's right because it is a gift and sometimes, you know, let's look at it the other way. Like we're being selfish if we don't share that gift because you're right on so many things happen to us, while we're doing life that we become sometimes timid or self-conscious, our self-esteem is beaten down just by life and we feel like who am I to do this or whatever but let's not be selfish. Let us share those gifts that, you know, the greater being, the greater universe, God, whatever you believe in, gave us because I truly believe that I think all of us like, if you look at nature, every single animal has a different gift and talent and that gift and talent is what keeps mother nature going, right. They all have something beautiful to contribute and I think that that's the same way with human beings. We all have something beautiful to contribute different gift, and we just have to put it out there for the universe to enjoy and to see and to grow from.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  13:03

I was gonna say just to add to that by you sharing your gift, it also gives other people permission to do that too because they see you with the courage to put yourself out there and that's where I believe that representation matters. Like if you don't see yourself doing the thing, you won't know what's possible for your own life.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  13:24

Yeah, I agree with you. 100%. So, if people want to buy your books, if teachers want to buy the teacher’s guide, parents want to buy the parent’s guide or any of your products, where can they find them?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  13:38

Yes, they can go to www.iamuniquebook.com and the books are all available there. You can also go to Amazon. All the books are available on Amazon. Children's books are on www.iamuniquebook.com  though.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  13:52

Perfect! And then you also have a poetry book, correct?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  13:5                                                                                                                                              . Yes! And that's available on Amazon, My Channeled Energy,

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  14:00

My channeled Energy, love it. Well, Jennifer, unless there's anything else you want to add, I really want to thank you for this quick live shot that we're inaudible (14:09)

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  14:10

Thank you so much Naibe. Someone asked a question. Let me see. (I'm a Spanish teacher. I help students to understand and write in Spanish. I'm also an artist and I would love to illustrate children's books eventually. I would love to write stories and will help more teachers in Spanish Immersion.) Man, that's great. I mean right now I'm learning Spanish because it's a beautiful language first off and being in Southern California, it's definitely a need, you know and an added skill. But that's great that this person is wanting to illustrate and if you guys have any questions feel free to put it in the box.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  14:52

Yeah, and speaking of Spanish, all my books are bilingual because I know the need. My son was in Spanish Immersion when he was younger and I see that more Spanish Immersion classes and schools are popping up. Why not? To me the more languages that we embrace and learn it's better because it's kind of like learning a different instrument. It taps different parts of the brain and it, you know, creates even a bigger imagination and a bigger understanding of other cultures. So, I am actually wanting to translate my “How to fold a Taco” book into French and some other languages as well. So, I totally embrace and understand the importance of you know, sharing our books with other cultures and other languages.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  15:43

Absolutely.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  15:52

Okay. Anybody else or?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  15:54

See if there's any other questions? (Can you coach me to start my project?) You can send me an email. My contact information is in the link in my bio. So as far as I do offer different services. So, go ahead and check out the link in my bio.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso  16:27

Okay, unless there's anything else, you know, I think we can say goodbye because I know that you have a busy schedule.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  16:37

Yeah. Thank you so much for your time. This was really great. Thanks for the opportunity.

 

Speaker: Naibe Reynoso 16:42

No thank you, Jennifer. And I hope we continue to connect and the author community is so supportive and amazing.  And, you know, hopefully we'll stay in touch and connect and have another live at some point with our new projects.

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  16:58

Yes, that will be great.

Okay, thanks, everyone. You too, bye

 

Kidlit Distancing Social Interview with Laura Backes and Jennifer Vassel

Last week, Jennifer sat down with Laura Backes, founder of Write for Kids and Children’s Book Insider for a discussion on overcoming self-doubt and finding the courage to put our work out into the world.

Speaker: Laura  06:19

Okay, I am now going to hop right in to introduce our wonderful guests tonight. Jennifer vessel is the author and founder of I am Unique, a children's book series and self-love brand aimed to inspire kids and adults to rise above their insecurities and share their unique gifts with the world. Her interest in entrepreneurship peaked when she heard a life changing sermon on New Year's Eve in 2012. So I'm going to ask her to tell us about that. In 2014, she published her debut book titled My Channeled Energy, which is a collection of poems and short stories written from the age of six to twenty-six. And that became an Amazon number one bestseller in two categories, in two different categories. So her main focus now is building her I am Unique Brand, which we will talk about. And she's been featured in all kinds of national online publications such as Forbes, Black Enterprise Thrive, Essence, Good Daily. So clearly, what she has created here has really touched a nerve and has influenced people all over the world. So what she's most proud of though, is being able to inspire others to tap into their natural gifts and live life with purpose and intention. That's what we're going to be talking about tonight. So Jennifer, welcome. Please join me on screen here.

 

Speaker: Laura  07:52

Hi. All right. Well, thank you so much for being here tonight with us.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  07:59

Thank you for having me.

 

Speaker: Laura  08:01

And this is such a great topic. I'm really excited to talk about this because we all could use inspiration, motivation, advice into tapping into our natural gifts and living a life with purpose and intention. And I think especially as we're starting a new year, there's a lot of sort of new things happening now And I think this is a great time to talk about this. So let's start out, can you tell us a little bit about your own journey to becoming a published author?

  

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  08:33

Yes, so my journey has definitely been very checkered. I have such a checkered path. I've always exhibited that natural gift of writing or being a creative. I wrote my first poem as six, my first short story at eight, and was published by nine. But growing up I didn't see anyone who looks like me who was writing books or creating something that they could make a living off of,  like writing as a living. A lot of my family are healthcare professionals and so I just didn't see people who looked like me in that close proximity doing the thing that I was naturally good at. So because of that, I ended up shifting careers and I ended up getting a bachelor's and a master's degree in business administration. But all that changed New Year's Eve 2012. New Year's Eve 2012 was the moment that, it was my aha moment that changed the trajectory of my life and career. Because I live streamed a sermon from Bishop Dale Bronner and he said, don't die with your gifts on the inside of you, impart to others what was entrusted to you. And that for me, was like my aha moment, I could not let another day go past without doing what I believe that I was created or placed on this earth to do. So at the top of 2013, I compiled poems and short stories that I've written from age six to twenty-six, and I ended up publishing my first poetry book called My Channeled Energy in 2014. And then in 2015, I thought, oh maybe I should write my story in the eyes of a child, to share how I overcame my own insecurity of having a birthmark. And I started that in 2015 and it was published in 2016. And I've been working on the I Am Unique Brand ever since and building it to be, positioning the character to be the face of self-love.

 

Speaker: Laura  10:29

That's wonderful. Now, your first book, My Channeled Energy, your work of poetry and short stories, I have read. It's quite moving and profound, I think. And it's very personal and includes, you know, work you wrote from elementary school through college, so those formative years and even after college, but from, you know, sort of late elementary school through adolescence, young adulthood; they’re very raw, vulnerable emotions that we experienced during that time, and you laid a lot of that out on the page. And that's a very brave choice for your very first book. So how did you get the courage to put yourself out there like that as a new author?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  11:16

Right, going back to that quote that Bishop Dale Bronner said, I really felt like I was playing small prayer. And the fear of playing small and staying the same was more painful than me actually cancelling out the naysayers and tapping into what I believe I was placed on this earth to do. The feeling of putting something out there that I mean, I'm naturally a private person, and I really don't share outside of, back then I was only sharing my poetry at open mic nights, here and there occasionally, and maybe my close friends and family members, but for me, I hit a point where I wanted to do more and be more and I felt like I had to put that fear aside. That fear of the critics, the naysayers, like I felt like I had to be more and become more and have that courage. And so that's what I did, I did it scared, I didn't let the fear cripple me and honestly Laura like when I got the proofs in the mail, that was such a, I was overcome with so much emotion, because it’s something that I have kept within for so long. And for it to materialize in my hands, like I had it in my hands, that piece of work, I couldn't care less now, if someone had something negative to say about it. As far as I'm concerned, it wasn't meant for them. You're not serving everybody, like not everyone is going to take to poetry. So it was more of like that, it was more of a test for me to see, will I act on what was placed on my heart to do.

 

Speaker: Laura  12:57

Well, and that's a really great point about, it's not for everyone. And I think you could say that about any book ever written. And I think a lot of writers, especially when they're just starting out, and they're putting their first work out there, they want to please everyone with it. And they get a negative review or even someone from their critique group who says I don't quite get this, which might be a valid criticism, but it also could just be they're not the audience. And I think it's so important for writers to embrace that idea because the people who need your book will get it and the people who don't need it might not, but that's okay. Just becoming comfortable with that, I think is very important. Do you feel that that kind of, once you embrace that, did it feel empowering?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  13:50

Oh, yeah, it definitely felt empowering. Like, there's this special on Netflix, I don't know if it's still up there. But Brene Brown has a special up there called The Call to Courage and she was talking about how when you're in the arena, when you're doing the work, there are always going to be naysayers. There's always going to be someone who buys cheap seats, cheap tickets to sit in the front and boo at you, critique you, but guess what, those people are not brave enough to go in the arena to play bigger and that's why they're on the sidelines. They're just watching and they're probably hating themselves because you're not limiting yourself to or you're not letting fear determine your destiny. And so, yes, it was a very empowering to understand that and embrace that. That yes, I can do it scared, but I shouldn't let fear cripple me.

 

Speaker: Laura  14:43

That's so true. Very often the naysayers don't have the courage to put themselves out there and they just criticize others who do and so you have to remember that no. So I mean, some criticism, constructive criticism is valid, but there's a difference between people who just want to cut you down and people who actually want to build you up, but with the constructive feedback.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  15:06

Right. And I'm all for constructive feedback. Sure, but if we're talking like haters and things like that, and whether or not I would let them deter me from doing the thing like writing or doing, I wouldn't like those kind of folks deter me from the overall goal. But yeah, absolutely.

 

Speaker: Laura  15:25

Sure, sure. Well, and that kind of leads us into your book, I Am Unique. There's a lot of similar themes in that book of having the confidence to put yourself out there, not worrying about what other people think. Can you tell us a little bit about this book and kind of how this came about?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  15:44

Yes. So I Am Unique stemmed from my childhood insecurity of having a birthmark. It covers a quarter of my back, it's a different tone than the rest of my complexion, so it stands out. And I was so insecure about it growing up, I wouldn't wear certain tops or dresses that exposed them. And I remember from my high school prom, I had the makeup artists cover up my birthmark with foundation because I wanted to look absolutely beautiful that night. But fast forward to today, I realized that no one should feel so insecure that they cover up a piece of who they are. And so I wrote, I Am Unique, because I wanted to, now that I've overcome my insecurity, of course, I wanted to showcase a little girl named Erin, who has a birthmark on her face and a passion for acting. And the story goes, just a brief synopsis of the story. She has a passion for acting, and she wants to try for the leading role in her school play. But when her best friend tries to discourage her, she has to figure out if she's going to let that get in the way of her dream.

And the message of I'm unique, that message lives within all of us whether it's a birthmark like Erin's or mine, a childhood scar, or maybe something that we can't physically see. But the overarching message is to, whatever that insecurity is, to overcome it and share your gifts with the world.

 

Speaker: Laura  17:02

That's great. Do you have some tips for writing a book like this, that you have a very specific message that you want to convey through the story. But you still have to create a story that stands on his own as an interesting story, so it doesn't sound preachy to the reader. How do you go about sort of crafting something like that? Did you start with the message or the theme and then brainstorm a story around that? Or did you come up with the character first? How did that happen?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  17:37

I was inspired by my childhood experiences that kept me back. And now that I'm an adult, and I can look back and have that awareness, I'm talking to the little girl in me. And so that would be my advice to a children's book authors or aspiring writers. To look at your childhood, there might be a slew of lessons that you could pull from and use that as inspiration and when you think about the characters in the story, pull from those as well. I didn't, Erin isn't exactly me, but the themes of what I went through are similar. So I would say, the best advice I would say is to pull from your childhood experiences or even if  you're not doing a children's book, pull from your past and write that into the story.

 

Speaker: Laura  18:27

Because that gives it that authentic emotion that you need in the book.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  18:33

And I think like coming with the up with the theme, I knew I wanted to talk about the birthmark because that was something that was insecurity that I held on for 10 years. So that's a long time to remain hidden. And  the birthmark is supposed to be taken, you could take it figuratively or literally, but figuratively, like whatever your birthmark is. So I wanted to speak to not only people who are birthmarks, I don't want them to get hung up on that, but whatever that thing that you think is a flaw, and you're covering it up because I covered it up for a long time. And I was not playing at my fullest potential.

So I think coming up with that theme, it kind of fell into place because I was thinking about the lessons learned now that I'm over it, and I'm a lot older.

 

Speaker: Laura  19:23

Great. So you chose to self-publish both these books, and especially your I Am Unique that has such a universal theme. It's the kind of thing that traditional publishers are always looking for. So was this a decision from the beginning that you decided to do, to self-publish? Or do you submit first and change your mind?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  19:48

I've never submitted a manuscript before. Both of the books that I've published, I went in with the intention of self-publishing. And the reason for that is because one of my values is building a legacy. And leaving something behind that people, when I take my last breath, my family can still see it and still access what I built while I was living. And also, it was important to me as ownership, I created my own publishing house so that I can house my creative works. And because you mentioned before, like how personal my Channeled energy is, well, both books are very personal. And I have it's so I was so vulnerable in both pieces that I wanted to have absolute creative control. I did not want anyone, with all due respect, but I didn't want anyone like coming in to tell me Oh, maybe you could tweak this or you can, you know, maybe change that. My vision was so strong for both books that I wanted it exactly how it was playing out in my mind. I wanted it materialized with the nobody's saying yea or nay. So that was very intentional. That's not to say that I would never traditionally publish because, in fact, I can totally see myself writing a memoir and having that traditionally published. But for this, I wanted to create a publishing house where I can house everything that I'm working on, and then to build that generational legacy and have something to pass down to the people who come after me.

 

Speaker: Laura  21:18

Okay, great, great. Are there some lessons you learned during this process that you wish you'd known going in?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  21:28

Yes. I'm thinking back to when I first published My Channel Energy. So for me, that was something that was a goal, I always wanted to be published. I didn't know how until that aha moment came about. And in my mind was that, you know, the easiest part is to get the book out. No, no, no, not that I thought that all I had to do was write the book and the customers would come. That's what I was thinking. I was like, Oh, well, the book is out, alright, where are the customers. So the first mistake that I made, I didn't target my audience, I didn't have an audience, I didn't build an audience. I didn't build a community beforehand, before launching, all in my mind was just writing the book and putting it out. So that was the first mistake, not finding my audience. I only went to two events that year, it came out. So it came out in 2014, I went to two events which really weren't where my audience was. So it's a poetry book and it has short stories in there, I should have been looking for spaces where people appreciate poetry. The two events that I went to, were more, were really not my target. And as a result of that, I only made two sales at one of the events. So I could have done my homework. I didn't know what I didn't know, of course, so that was my trial run. With I Am Unique, I was way more intentional and way more strategic. So I would say someone starting out, make sure you identify who your ideal reader is. And then also build that community, build your mailing list before you launch the book.

 

Speaker: Laura  23:02

Great. Yeah, that's  very good advice. And something that a lot of writers don't do. They think I stick it up on Amazon and people will find it but they don't.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  23:17

It gets buried

 

Speaker: Laura  23:18

Yes, it totally gets buried. Yeah. So how can authors get the courage to put themselves out there to tell the stories of their hearts and to share their gifts with the world as you have done?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  23:31

Yes, I have some slides for that, like three tips for how you can build your self-confidence while you're on your writing journey.

 

Speaker: Laura  23:39

Let me share my screen here, and we will, okay.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  23:46

And so I created a visual so you all could see. But I feel like this is the best way, or one of the best ways to build your self-confidence because it's really not easy. It's not an easy thing to be vulnerable and to put yourself out there. So on the next slide, I'll talk about the first tip that I have. And that's to tell your story. The most common thing people ask me is what inspired you to write your books? Like they want to be on your journey, when you tell your story, you're bringing your followers along with you, they're able to see what inspired you, how you were able to do what you do, and that inspires them to set out on their own journey and it gives them an opportunity for them to dream bigger. So always be open to telling your story and sharing your story because people want to have access to your journey and learn more about you as you go. And the second thing is to share your big scary goal. And it's daunting, right? It's daunting to share your goal, you can share your goal with your friend or a confidant or you can do it publicly. But the reason why I have this here is because when you share your goal publicly, it is releasing that energy out into the world, that you have something that you want to do, and you want to share it. Depending on your writing journey, you may want to become a New York Times bestseller, you may want to, whatever your goal is, if you're sharing it, you don't know who's out there who will be able to get you closer to that dream. And I have this image here. So this is something that I do to help me with my big scary goals. So one of my goals is to become a keynote speaker for Oprah Winfrey's Leadership Academy for girls in South Africa.

 

I want to do a keynote there and I photoshopped The I Am Unique book into the hands of each and every girl, including Oprah's hands, because I feel so strongly about speaking to these girls, that message of self-love and not being afraid to be exactly who you are and be authentic in your and hone in on your power. And that is a message that I want to share with those girls. And I posted it on Instagram, it was scary, it was nerve wracking, but I posted it because I wanted to have it out there to hold me accountable to this goal. And to keep me working on that goal and keep on taking the steps toward it. And naturally, people didn't read the caption. So they thought that it already happened, and so they're like, oh, congratulations, oh, this and that they're so excited, but that's the kind of energy I wanted. Like it's no, I'm holding myself accountable, I've told a lot of people that this is what I want to do and who knows what will happen after this. But if I keep pursuing it and keep taking the steps toward this goal, who knows what will happen. And so I share this with you, because this could be something that you do, whatever that big goal is. You can create a graphic and post it in one of your common areas, maybe above your desk or in the kitchen, wherever or bathroom, post it so that it’s a constant reminder of what you set out to do. You can also have it on your phone, save it on your phone, so that it’s the first thing you see on your home screen. So yes, share your big scary goal and as you share, it's building confidence, it’s building that muscle.

 

Speaker: Laura  27:17

Well, and also it gives you momentum, like you said, if you tell people that this is a goal, you don't necessarily have to put it on social media, if you don't feel comfortable with that. But tell your friends, tell your family, tell the people in your critique group, and then it's out there. And then you have to do something about it, because you told them you want to do this, you can't just let it go. And so it forces you to start taking those steps moving forward because you've told people about it. I really like that.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  27:49

It's that accountability. And the last one is to keep going. You never know how far you'll come if you quit. That's the worst thing that you could do. Right. And I love this illustration because it depicts that, look at the man at the bottom. If he had had to wait one more time, he would have gotten those diamonds, those gems, but he quit, he turned around. And then if he had, if he was like the gentleman up top, you know. If he kept that same energy and kept packing away at that goal and kept going, going, even when the going goes tough, he could, you know, if he continues the same energy, he's going to ultimately achieve his goal. So the third thing about building that self-confidence, it's really not something, it's not a muscle that you can build overnight like with anything. You can't get up one morning and be like, Oh, I'm  so competent. This is an exercise that you have to do every single day to build that momentum using that word that you used earlier, but to build that momentum, because knowing that helps you to build that confidence. And I think the last slide if you if you use all three of these steps, and you do it consistently, that will help build character and the confidence that you need to continue sharing your work and your art.

 

Speaker: Laura  29:07

Great. great. And these are not complicated ideas here. They're actually pretty simple ideas, but it's  doing them consistently. Like you said, that is so important. Terrific. Well thank you for that very much. So do you feel that practicing this self-love and doing these things to help overcome your insecurities, helps an author not only write their best work, but also be more effective in marketing it to the world. Because the writing is just half the job, you got to get with your readers. So has that helped you? I mean you've been in some pretty high profile places with your book like Forbes magazine and you've been on television interviewed and all kinds of you know, great places. So clearly this has helped you

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  30:06

Yes, I absolutely believe self-love and mindset is a big thing. If you don't have the right mindset, you're not going to get the results that you deserve. You know, especially when it comes to marketing. And I think the number one thing for authors is to figure out how to get your book, or books into the hands of your ideal readers consistently, so that you can make sales. But how can you do that if your ideal readers don't know you exist? So you can do that through effective storytelling, always sharing your story. And through effective marketing, those things won't happen, you won't be able to sell or market or share your stories, if your mindset is, oh, I'm an introvert, I don't like marketing, I hate marketing, when you're putting that negative energy out there, of course, it's not going to work for you. I always get and I can speak directly to this because I'm an introvert myself. This is difficult to share, to always be on a hunt like 100%, and sharing a lot of yourself, a lot of your personal work for critique or praise, whatever it is. But it's a muscle, it's something that will stretch you. And if you go in positively knowing that this is, if you take yourself out of the center and realize that you're doing this for the reader and for your mission. And imagine if you never share a bit of yourself, you're robbing other people from getting to know who you are and getting to know your work. Because what you're doing is supposed to be impacting the readers, right? And so we can't get hung up on what we don't like doing or we don't like video, or we're uncomfortable. Marketing is an opportunity for you to stretch and rise to the occasion.

 

Speaker: Laura  31:55

Mm hmm. Yeah, that's so true. And for those of you who want to hear more about that part of it, Jennifer is really a master marketer. And she's going to be doing a webinar for us on March 18. Just about marketing, and she's going to reveal a lot of her tremendous secrets. And we are tentatively calling it the non-marketers guide to author marketing. So she is going to address all of your fears and your insecurities about marketing, and help you get over that. So we'll be talking more about that. We'll let you know about that as we get closer, but I just wanted to alert you to that so you can keep an eye out for that announcement. So if you guys all have questions for Jennifer, please put them in the Q&A. She can talk about self-publishing, she could talk about marketing, she could talk about mindset, which is so important. Talking more about mindset here, are there certain words that we tend to use when we talk to ourselves as creative people that maybe we shouldn't be using that are you know, cutting off our ability to rise above our insecurities or to love ourselves? Things like, oh, you're an imposter, you know, you can't do this. People are all going to find out that you're an imposter, you’re a failure, anything like that. Did you have certain self-talk that you had to get rid of when you were going through this journey?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  33:36

Yes, like I'm not good at video, or I don't like public speaking. So it's saying not or I'm not good at this, like that was limiting for me. That was something that I had to get over, because I realized that if I'm going to make anything move, I need to speak, I need to share my story. Or another one, I don't like listening to my voice, I don't know who does but that was one thing I had to get over too, because I don't really like hearing my voice on podcast or seeing myself on camera, it makes me uncomfortable sometimes, or it made me uncomfortable. And so what I had to do was not have those thoughts and not let those thoughts keep me from the ultimate goal. So say not or saying like putting yourself down or saying oh, well, comparing and saying such and such does this way better. Well, such an such might have been doing this five more years than you. So looking at your own track record and seeing how far you've come. That's something that I do to see. I wasn't like this in 2014, I've grown significantly. So just appreciating the journey along the way.

 

Speaker: Laura  34:43

Absolutely. That is so important. And you know, I mentioned the link earlier for all the award winners from the American Library Association. It's wonderful to see those books. It's also very intimidating, especially if you are a new author and you think I can never get there. Well, the people who have won these awards, like you said, a lot of them have been writing for 20, 25, 30 years. I mean, at one point, they were also brand new and knew nothing. And so remembering that and I think it's useful sometimes if there's authors you admire, to go to their websites and read their bios, and authors, especially children's book authors are really generous about sharing. How many rejection letters they got, how long it took them to get their first publication, how many manuscripts they wrote, that are still sitting in their drawer, and you read that and then you go, Okay, I can do this too, it helps it actually helps boost your confidence. So check out the bios of your favorite authors. Okay, so a couple questions here. So mg, I don't know who mg is, but wants to know about publishing e-books on different platforms. Kindle versus Apple, KDP, book baby Ingram. When you created e-books, for your books, what sort of platforms did you choose to use?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  36:18

So I use Kindle Direct Publishing, that's Amazon's publishing platform. So there, I've been happy with their publishing solution. It's a print on demand model. So I don't really have to get involved in the fulfillment, unless people buy directly from my site, which is great, too. So I've used that. I also use iBooks. And so that iBooks is Apple's e-book component. But I've used those two and been happy with the experience.

 

Speaker: Laura  36:51

Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you, continue.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  36:54

Oh, yeah, that might be a delay on my part. But I was also going to suggest to, if you do sell e-books on your personal website, one thing that I've done is create it into a PDF and just sell it directly to my customer. So that's another alternative to cut out the middleman because Apple and Amazon do take a cut of your royalties.

 

Speaker: Laura  37:16

That's an excellent point, create a PDF. And then I imagine, that's often easier if teachers want to use it in their classroom. And they're like, projecting from their computer onto a screen or a television in the classroom, a PDF is something they can easily use. And they don't have to worry about having, you know, a Kindle reader or anything like that. So that's a great point.

Alice is saying, can you talk a bit more about how long it has taken you to get where you are now, how long did it take to write and publish and set up your web presence? So you know, you work a lot on marketing, I know. But from start, you know, you said 2014 is when you published your first book?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  38:06

Yes. And so this, how long that took, well, I started in 2013, I compiled everything that I had written. So I spent the year or so learning how to self-publish, because I've never self-published before. So 2013, so call it a year, compiling all the work, figuring out how to get this up and running. And then I published it in 2014 and then with I Am Unique, it took me about a couple weeks to write the book to self-publish it. And then I would say from start to finish, because picture books are a little bit different than writing other types of books because you have to engage an Illustrator, and you have to get on their project timelines, and there might be delays and then there's also a back and forth. Sometimes you are looking for a specific look and they might not have delivered it the way that you needed it. So you have to give that that timeline there. I think from start to finish, from the start of me writing the book to it being in my hand maybe took six months. What was the other part of the question? Was it the timeline of publishing or-

 

Speaker: Laura  39:21

Sort of setting up your web presence and you know, all that now, did you have a lot of that before your first book came out? Or did you learn as you went along there?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  39:32

I did not have a web presence in 2014, I did not have a website, a mailing list. I did so many things wrong and the only reason why I got on social media outside of Facebook was because I was like okay, well maybe I need to like have Instagram or something to push My Channel Energy but I really was not online. And so for me as I started learning more, and becoming more comfortable with being online, I did bits and pieces. Like so I started building the website and I learned how to do that. And I learned who I could go to, to build the site that I was connected to, or the site that I that would speak to my messaging. So I think it's hard to say as far as like how long all of this, it didn't take, like, I didn't start from like, 20, I can't say I started from like 2014 and 2016. I did it in spurts, as I had income coming in, and I still had my nine to five. So as the money was coming in, then I worked on something else, then, you know, then I got another sum of money coming in, then I started working on building my mailing list. So I don't really, I don't have like a timeline per se. And I think that it really depends on the person. Sure, sure.

 

Speaker: Laura  40:54

So there's another question here about with self-publishing, did you receive many different contracts with different costs? I'm guessing Cal's asking for printing the physical books? Did you choose print on demand? Or did you actually get a quantity of books printed at once?

 

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  41:12

No, I did print on demand, Amazon course or otherwise known as Kindle Direct Publishing has a print on demand model. So that's what I wanted to have. I wanted the freedom to have someone else be responsible for the fulfillment. And I have not, the only time that I would order a bulk of books is if I was doing an event before lockdown. So I would order a large sum of them and then sell it at that vendor event.

 

Speaker: Laura  41:42

And that's really been a boon for Self-publishers is that print on demand. And I think that takes a lot of the pressure off you, you don't have to put 3000 books in your garage, after you know, come up with a big chunk of money up front, print 3000 copies of your book or whatever, store them in your garage, and then figure out how to sell them so you can pay yourself back. You can kind of grow bit by bit as a self-publisher these days, because you don't have to lay out a lot of money upfront for the big inventory. You still have to pay your illustrator and do some other things, but it does take a lot of the pressure off financially, I think to be able to do print on demand. Makes it a lot easier.

 

Speaker: Laura  42:28

So Chrissy says, first of all, that marketing seminar sounds awesome, it will be extremely awesome. Until then, what are a few steps you recommend pre-published authors should do to establish their presence out there in the world? Can you think of one or two things that are sort of really good for, before authors get published that they can start creating their name out there?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  42:56

I would say start with, one of the things that I'll likely be sharing is about video marketing, and how important video is. I read this article that said, how little our attention span is, like our attention span is getting less and decreasing by the minute. I think it said that we have less of an attention span than a goldfish. And so you want to get people's attention really quickly. So one thing that I would suggest is getting on video, sharing, you don't have the book yet, which is fine, you can start introducing yourself to your ideal reader. Share who you are, what your mission is, what your values are, what your book is about, or your potential book. And then the other thing that I would suggest is building that mailing list as well. You can, there's a thing called lead magnet where you can create a document, a PDF, a checklist, or something pertaining to your book and then link that as an opt in. When someone signs up to your newsletter or your mailing list, they'll get that free PDF or whatever it is that you're sharing with them in exchange for their email. And you can do that way before you have the book out. You can even share depending on what type of book you have, maybe you share a chapter of your book, but the key is to build that community before you launch your book.

 

Speaker: Laura  44:32

That's  very true. And again, we'll be getting into a lot more details on this in the marketing webinar. So stay tuned for that. Terry says you're pretty brave but also very skilled, which is true. It must have been difficult to learn about publishing. Did you take courses, read books, talk to people, so how did you kind of acquire your knowledge?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  44:57

I went to YouTube University and Google University. So I was literally online, just searching, researching, seeing, like, there's things out there that are like, there are some people who wrote about their experiences, there's blogs, who posted, like checklists and different steps that they've taken. And so while I was doing that, while I was reading and rereading, I looked into Amazon.  And someone suggested to me that there's this thing called self-publishing, and you don't really need to go to a publisher, if you want to own your work 100%. And so at the time, Amazon was using CreateSpace, Create Space was the solution that they have now, they merged to Kindle Direct Publishing. So someone mentioned CreateSpace and I looked into it, and they had documentation there that helped you along the way. But it really, it took me doing a lot of internet research to figure out how can I get this out there?

 

Speaker: Laura  46:00

Mm hmm. That's great. So really you just did a lot of searching and did you get a sense of, was there a way to tell which information was good and which was maybe not so good? You know, there's so much out there online, how did you know who really to follow for the right information?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  46:24

That's such a great question. So what I did, like I know it can be daunting to just research and look at so much stuff online. And so what I started doing when I was reading, I was looking at the commonalities of the posts.

So that's how I learned and then it really, my first book was really, it was a testament to how much I wanted this, and how much like I was willing to do the research to figure it out. But one thing that I do have is a resource where you don't have to go and search all these multiple sites, but I do have, I can give you the link later, Laura. It's a self-publishing guide. And it's a 10 page checklist of all the steps that I took to publish both my books. So after I did the scouring, and comparing and getting the, doing the trial and error, I made my own process, so that I could hit all of them. Because what I noticed was that one person had maybe like a well, here's what you do here and then another person had this. And so what I did, going through it myself, I tweaked it a little bit and found out what works best for me and how I could get this out there. So yes, I'm happy to share the self-publishing guide if anybody needs it.

 

Speaker: Laura  47:41

We appreciate that. So we'll include that link with the replay. So look right under the replay, which will go out tomorrow. And we'll have the link to your self-publishing guide. Thank you. That's wonderful. Yolanda is self-publishing and she said she is already awaiting some revisions on the illustrations she contracted for. She said, I can't begin my marketing until I get a good cover image for her book. Is that correct? Is there something that she can be doing before the cover to kind of get the word out? Well you had already mentioned about maybe creating a video? Could you, is there some way to kind of tease the book with your potential audience if you don't yet have a cover? Or is it best to just wait until she has a cover?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  48:36

No, I would say, you can still promote your work without having the cover done or most of the book done. I mentioned before the video marketing aspect of it. People want to see the person behind the pages, right, and how interesting is that to learn the story behind it. So you can get on camera, I know that is something that not everyone is comfortable with. But remember how I shared there is some elements of stretching and getting out of your comfort zone. And so this would be a great opportunity to get on camera and share what inspires you, share a little bit about the book. The other thing that you could do if you want like graphics, maybe you have some of the characters, your illustrator has already done some of the characters, maybe you can tease that a little bit and show that off if you're comfortable with sharing that online. If you're not then I would say using Quotables, like pulling quotes from the book or pulling like FAQ things that you know people would most likely ask you about the book and answering it creatively, either on video or with a graphic of some maybe some illustration that you don't mind sharing online.

 

Speaker: Laura  49:46

Great. great. Now we have a lot of questions here about how you found your Illustrator. How you paid your Illustrator. I don't want you to divulge any details you don't feel like sharing. But was there a particular place you went to find the illustrator that you ended up using?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  50:05

Okay, so the way I found my illustrator was, how I shared before, like, my vision was so strong, and I knew exactly what I wanted. And so what I did was Google Search representative artists. Because I didn't want my illustrations to look cartoony. And that's not to shame anybody who uses cartoons. I'm just talking about my preference and what the vision that I had for my book. I wanted the characters to look exactly how they were depicted in real life. And so when I searched representative artists, my illustrator came up, Penny Webber. And her website came up, she was on a, I do not remember the form that it was on, it was a children's book illustrators forum. You can easily search that on Google, and they have a slew of illustrators that put their work up there. But when I did that search of representative artists, I found her website and I told her what my goal was, this is what I'm working on. And then she directed me to her agents, and then we negotiated from there.

 

Speaker: Laura  51:15

Great, great. And then as far as you know, payment, that's something you work out with the illustrator, there are various ways to do that. There is a flat fee, where you just pay them one time, it's like a work for hire agreement, there is a royalty. There's a lot of different ways to do that and I believe, I may be wrong here, but I believe the Authors Guild website might have some information on working with illustrators, if you are an author, self-publishing. I would go to their website and just look because that seems to, I may be wrong there. I think SCBWI Society of children's book writers and illustrators, if you are a member there, they have information as well.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  52:04

Yeah. To add to that, like, yeah, I mean, the SCBWI, I always say ‘squee’, because I can't say that. But with them, they have, I am a member with them as well. And not only do they  have children's book writers, but illustrators are there. And some of them are looking for work. So that's another opportunity. You can connect with professional sites, professional networks, like SCBWI, you know, to find people. And you know how I said earlier, share your goals with people. So if your goal, share with people hey, I'm looking for an illustrator. I'm looking for this type of artists, this type of style, who do you know? You never know what might come up.

 

Speaker: Laura  52:46

Mm hmm, exactly. And I would suggest that if you are contracted with an illustrator, you pay a publishing lawyer for an hour of their time to help you write up an agreement. And we are actually going to have a guest in two weeks, I think who is a publishing attorney. And she can answer some questions about that. So be sure to come back for that one. But you just want to make sure that everything's legal, so that everybody's happy. Everybody's protected, I think that's really important. Okay, just a couple more questions here, because we're getting up to the top of the hour. We have a great question here from Dory, she's asking, she's writing picture books series. Do you have any tips on building your audience and marketing to parents? Because they're really the ones who are going to be buying the picture books, the parents, the teachers, the adults in the kids’ lives, if you're writing for young children, so that's really who you're trying to reach with your marketing?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  53:48

Yeah, so one thing that has helped me a lot with targeting parents is going where, the key is to go, where your readers are. When we're talking about children's books, they don't have the buying power, it's the parents. So where are parents reading? What are parents reading? Where are they on and offline? Because we're in this pandemic. We can't necessarily go offline per se, but there's so many resources online where you can go. For example, PBS Kids, they have a great organization there where they have a lot of tips for parents. One way that you can market is, if you're positioning yourself as, I'm just giving examples, because I don't know this person's particular situation. But if they are an expert, you're positioning yourself as an authority figure or a credible person in your industry, you can reach out to them and guest blog and talk about a particular topic that they need. You pitch your idea to them, they might want to work with you and then you write the article for them at the very end, you can link to your book or share that you have a book coming out and link to your newsletter or sign up for the mailing list. That's one way. And then another way that you can find parents, facebook has been really great. There are a lot of Facebook groups for children's book writers, for people who are really looking for diverse content for specific types of books. You could go to Facebook, go to the group section and search by using key terms of, you know, certain interests, and you, nine times out of 10 will find a group pertaining to that specific interest. So finding out what kind of parents that you're trying to market to, what topic will help a lot, but those are some of the areas. Magazines, kids magazines, or parenting magazines, you can get in front of parents that way and market and I'll definitely teach you strategies on how to pitch to media, because that's something that I've been able to master.

 

Speaker: Laura  55:52

That’s great, in your marketing workshop. That is wonderful. If you were you know, this nonfiction picture book, Dory that you wrote, series, I would also suggest you look at, there are bloggers who and websites for homeschooling parents. And writing an article for them on how your book can be used as part of a lesson plan, as part of a unit on whatever the topic is. Especially if your website has downloadable stuff that the parents can download and use as a teaching tool that connects with your book. That's another great way to get in front of the parents there. So okay. I would say last question here, because you've been so generous with your time. Marsha asked about-

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  56:44

I’m happy to stay on a little longer to answer the questions.

 

Speaker: Laura  56:48

Okay. Well, thank you. That's wonderful, then we'll do a few more. How do you explain to the librarian, where your books should be shelved? Now are your books in libraries? Is that a market that you are pursuing as a self-published author?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  57:05

No. Okay, well, I have not, I'm open to libraries and getting it there. I have not targeted libraries because there's so many other ways that people can access my book. So unfortunately, wouldn't be able to answer that question or offer feedback for that one.

 

Speaker: Laura  57:19

Okay. How about, have you done any sales in specialty shops? Have you pursued debtors? Are your sales mostly online?  I that where you're focusing?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  57:32

It's mostly online. So the main sellers is my website, iamuniquebook.com, and then Amazon. There has been instances where I had short stints in bookstores. And we did it on a consignment basis. Consignment basis where my book was there for a limited time and we saw how we did. But really, people are on Amazon around the clock. So a lot of my sales are e-commerce based.

 

Speaker: Laura  58:05

Okay. And have you noticed, print versus e-book? Is there a big difference in the sales? Your children's book versus your book of poetry and stories? Have you sort of tracked that at all?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  58:24

Yeah. The children's book, mostly print, people are buying print mostly with that I have had a few sales with ebooks. But I think with kids or parents when they're buying the books, for their kids, they want the child to be able to feel the pages and things. So I'm noticing that there's more sales for that, I've seen more sales for e-books with the poetry book because it's more of an older audience. And they're trying to get a handle on having so many books in their library, so they just want to have it digitally. But for kids I've seen, absolutely seeing more physical books. And going back to the previous question about like where I'm seeing sales, or am I doing specialty. Specialty I think was partnerships or I can't remember what you said, official sales. So we are available for like opportunities to connect overseas. Like for example we have I Am Unique in French. And we had a woman reach out and say well, there's a lack of books that talk about this in France. So we'd love to get a set order of books. So we do have, we are open to contracting with people overseas if they want to have the books in their bookstores, but mostly it's e-commerce for us. It’s really where things are at.

 

Speaker: Laura  59:47

Great. Great. I will ask a couple more questions of Jennifer. I want to let you all know the chat box is open if you want to leave any comments for Jennifer. And also Cal if you're still here and you want to repost that link to the slack group, feel free. So you can all get together and chat. Okay. Cheryl asked, Cheryl's an artist, she's saying, is it a good idea to get an artist for your first book in order to get it published faster? If you are an artist, but you are struggling to get the images exactly the way you envision? So I think really the question here is, is it better to wait and have your product truly match your vision, even if it means having to hire an illustrator, instead of doing the art yourself? I have an opinion on that but I want to hear what your opinion is.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:00:50

Yeah if you're a professional artist, then sure, by all means, and I've seen people do that. Vashti Harrison, she has a book called Little leaders. And another book as well. She is an illustrator and an author. So her work is impeccable on both fronts. And so if you are a professional artists, or you are very good at visually portraying things, then sure, by all means. But I think also what you should be cautious of, is putting, I'm not saying that this is your situation, but putting subpar work out there. Because remember, this is your brand and this is your name. So if art is not your thing, and you, by all means wait, wait till you can hire that artists or wait till that illustrator is available to do the work because this is your name and this is your brand and it’s going to live on forever. Why put out subpar work when you can get it, you know, get it out at a later time and it'll be just exactly how you envisioned it.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:01:58

I agree. And especially with picture books, the art is so vital, it's vital to the cover image. The title are what draw people to your book and remember, even online, that's what they're seeing first. If you are printing hard copies, and you do want it carried in libraries, or bookstores, it is going to sit on the shelf next to, think about winning artists or professional illustrators, people who have been doing this for a long time. And so you want your book to look just as good. And if that means having to wait a while you save up a bit and hire the illustrator, you really want that is often the best choice. Rather than putting out subpar work, like you said.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:02:45

Right. And if you do, like say, say you draw, you draw, I’m losing my train of thought. So you have the artwork done and you wanted, like if you want to use your artwork as a reference point for the illustrators, that works, you know. But again, like if that's your profession, and you are skilled at doing the art and you can double up as an illustrator and writer and save money. Sure. But if that's not your lane, then I would say respect the illustrators zone of genius and save up for it if that's what you want or budget for it and wait for it. Wait till you can get it done exactly how you want it.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:03:22

Great. Okay, my last question for you. But I want to just mention, Liz posted a question in the chat box to Cal. But Liz, you just clicked all panelists, so Cal can't see it. You have to pull down the little menu that says to all panelists and attendees above where you type the chat, and then Cal can see it. So why don't you repost that. Okay, we got connections going on here. All right. Last question. Do you do school visits? Of course this is you know, once we're all able to get together again in person. Is that part of your promotion plan? Is that something you do?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:04:00

Can you say that one more time like I was getting a bit of a glitch?

 

Speaker: Laura  1:04:03

Do you do you do school visits?

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:04:07

Yeah, I was doing that before we went on lockdown. And so that was a great way for me to, one thing that I noticed too, is like, it's not often that kids see the people who are writing the books they read. I had something happen, so in 2016, I went to this conference, and this woman bought the I am Unique book from me and then a couple days later, she called and left a voicemail and was like, Jennifer, I'm so happy that I bought this book. My daughter was so excited, she was shocked. She's never met an author before. She was excited that I actually know you, she thought all authors were dead. I was like that is the craziest thing. But when you think about it, though, we're buying books. We're not really thinking about who penned that. So for me, being in front of them and saying, hey, I wrote this book. I'm not that that much, I'm still relatively around your age, however I want to work it but like I'm saying, so you can do that, you can do this too. If I'm doing it, you can do it as well. So I think doing that in school and doing the readings, they really love that. It really adds that human touch, and it inspires kids because you never know how, by just seeing you, right seeing you in that space doing the thing. You never know how much that can expand their imagination and be like, okay, well, if she can do it, so can I.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:05:38

Absolutely, absolutely. And just getting that wonderful feedback from the kids, you know, especially if your story meant something personally to them and kind of changed how they think about themselves. And for them to tell you that is just so wonderful. You know, I think that's probably one of the biggest joys of being an author.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:06:03

Yeah, it was it's really touching to like when they, after you've read, like this little girl hugged me around my thighs, she was too short to get my, she was very petite little girl. But she hugged me and she was like, Oh, you're such a great reader, I want to read just like you, but like those things are so touching because you're really reaching them where they are. And you took the time as an author, you cut the time out of your busy schedule to meet them where they are. Now, what I'm seeing is that a lot of teachers are reaching out virtually, everything is virtual. So you can do virtual readings if you'd like and it has the same impact or similar impact.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:06:43

Absolutely. Yeah. I'm glad that they are doing that and teachers are finding a way to make that work. I know it's really hard with the kids in all different places and, but the teachers you are all saints. I mean I salute you all for making that happen. So well Jennifer, thank you so much. This has been wonderful.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:07:06

Thank you so much for having me.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:07:09

Waiting for information  and we are all looking forward to your marketing workshop in March. And we will spread the word on that when we're closer. But thank you so much for all your advice and inspiration tonight.

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel 1:07:23

Thank you so much Laura.

 

Speaker: Laura  1:07:24

Okay. Well thank you all for being here and we will see you next week. Bye

 

Speaker: Jennifer Vassel  1:07:28

Bye.

 

Interview with Maritere Rodriguez Bellas and Jennifer Vassel

Speaker: Maritere  00:00

Hello, hello. Welcome, everyone. Happy Monday, I hope everyone had a good weekend. We had a nice time, it was quiet but our daughter came to visit Friday night and she stayed until half day Saturday, so it was wonderful to have her home. Of course, always missing our son but hopefully we'll get to see him soon as well. Today is Martin Luther King Day, and we are celebrating with a visit from a talented children's book author. Her name is Jennifer Vassel. And Jen is the author of the I am Unique Book brand and we're going to chat with Jen about self-love, embracing our diversity, our uniqueness, diversity, inclusion, all those wonderful topics, especially for today. And she and I met at a culture and friendship event a few years ago and we became fast friends. We also have a surprise announcement that we are going to make later on as when we talk. So I hope you stick around and take a listen to what our surprise announcement is.

 

Excuse me. Hi, @carmenchinoboutique. @c4torn, I can’t say what your name is but thank you for joining us, @itsMarisolfit, I'm glad that you're here. We are waiting for our guests to join us. And she is Jennifer Vassel you're going to love her book, the message from her book and her brand. And what she's trying to do with all her books, so I am waiting for Jen. She's not in yet, but I'm sure she will be soon. (Speaks Spanish) What did everyone do this? What did you all do, @mzcavalli, I can't remember who you are. But Janet, how are you mi amor, (says something in Spanish). Your daughters are so beautiful, I saw their picture this weekend that you posted. And we are just waiting for our guest, she is Jennifer Vassel. And we're going to talk to Jen about her I am Unique children's book brand. I'm going to ask her to join us, let's see here. Oh, I think I just sent you the request or the invitation I should say. There you are.

 

Speaker: Jennifer 02:52

Hi there.

 

Speaker: Maritere 02:52

How are you?

 

Speaker: Jennifer 02:53

I'm doing good. How about yourself?

 

Speaker: Maritere 02:55

I'm doing well. I'm doing well. I love your glasses. Oh my gosh.

 

Speaker: Jennifer 03:00

Thank You.

 

Speaker: Maritere 03:01

Well before we start, let's talk a little bit about how are you doing? How's your family? How are you adjusting to this normal, I guess we can call it, this days is the new normal?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  03:14

Yes, I'm doing. Family is good. We're all staying safe and healthy. Thank God, we're you know, we haven't caught anything. We're just really just staying at home and being as productive as we can be during this time. How about you?

  

Speaker: Maritere  03:29

Same here, same here, just trying to stay above water. Jen tell us about your background and where you were born and raised where? I think you were raised bicultural but not necessarily Bilingual. Tell us a little bit about that?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  03:50

Yeah, so born and raised in Southern California. I am of Jamaican heritage, my parents are Jamaican, they came here in the 70s. They moved from Jamaica to the US in the 70s but my household was very much bicultural, we still eat the Jamaican foods, the music. Everything about Jamaican culture is definitely ingrained in my upbringing, and the household in general. But as far as my background, so I'm a children's book author, speaker and creative entrepreneur based in Los Angeles and I write about self-love and inspiring kids and adults to rise above their insecurities and share their unique gifts with the world. I also share information, tools and resources for authors who are looking to promote themselves build that courage to promote themselves and to essentially be their own publicist.

 

Speaker: Maritere  04:43

How did your parents promote culture at home; music, food, did they cook Jamaican food all the time?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  04:53

All the time, Sunday dinner was definitely the Jamaican food, had all of the typical things that a household would have, Caribbean household would eat. And other things that we do within our culture is, we're very much, we really respect our elders and we love to celebrate one another that way. I bring that up because last week, my grandmother celebrated her 101st  birthday, and yes.

Speaker: Maritere  05:20

Oh my Gosh. You have a long life ahead of you.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  05:26

Yes. On both ends, actually, my dad's mom, she's in her 90s and so I'm going to be around here for a long time, I think I will.

 

Speaker: Maritere  05:38

God bless your family, that’s amazing. Did you always know that you wanted to be a book author?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  05:44

Oh, that's an interesting question, because, you know, although I was exhibiting the gift of writing, and I always loved writing and being creative, I didn't know that I could do that professionally. So I wrote my first poem at six, my first short story at eight, I was published by nine. But growing up, I didn't see anybody who looked like me, writing or even making, a writing or being an author a viable career path. My family very much are health care professionals, and that's all I saw. So I ended up getting a bachelor's and a master's degree in business administration instead. And something happened, New Year's Eve 2012 that really changed the trajectory of my life and career. Bishop, Dale Bronner, I was watching a New Year's Eve sermon, Bishop Dale Bronner said don't die with your gifts on the inside of you, impart to others what was entrusted to you. And that really changed the trajectory of my life and career because at the top of the year 2013, I compiled poems and short stories that are written from age 6 to 26. And then in 2014, it was published on my birthday, and it became an Amazon number one bestseller. So that really gave me the proof and the energy to keep going forward. And then fast forward to 2016, I started looking into children's books and wanting to write a children's book that was inspired by my childhood insecurity. So short answer; No, I did not, I did not know that I always wanted to be a children's book author. I think that I arrived at that moment as I grew into my purpose.

 

Speaker: Maritere  07:24

I love it. I love that. So let's talk about I am Unique book. How do you come up with that and the message and the story? Tell us a little bit about that.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  07:37

I came up with the story, I am Unique because it was inspired by my childhood insecurity of having a birthmark. My birthmark is a quarter of my back it's a different shade than the rest of my skin. And it was something that I was really insecure about growing up, I would wear tops that covered it.

 

Speaker: Maritere  07:58

You wanted to hide it

 

Speaker: Jennifer  07:59

Exactly. And for my high school prom, I wanted to look absolutely beautiful that night. And I had the makeup artist doll me up and then cover up my birthmark with foundation because I wanted to look absolutely beautiful that night. And fast forward to today I realized that no one should feel so insecure that they cover up a piece of who they are. And that was really like the catalyst to me writing I am Unique is because I wanted to create a story where Erin, she's the main character, she has a birthmark on her face, a passion for acting and she wanted to try out for the leading role in a schools play. But when her best friend tries to discourage her, she has to figure out if she's going to let a perceived flaw get in the way of her dream. But the message is really about not only birthmarks, whatever your insecurity is, to rise above it and to share your uniqueness with the world.

 

Speaker: Maritere  08:49

I curious that your birth mark was in the back but Erin had her birthmark in the face. Why was that?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  09:00

I wanted it to be front and center. It's the first thing that you see when you look at people. And I wanted it to be a metaphor for, yes like it's a book about the little girl with a birthmark but that it's not just that. The birthmark is supposed to be a metaphor for whatever is keeping us small, whatever we're hiding behind. And it's really to inspire people to overcome that, whatever it is do not cover it up. It could be something physical like Erin's birthmark or it could be something that we can't physically see but to overcome that and share your gifts with the world.

 

Speaker: Maritere  09:35

Why do you think it's important, I know that you don't have children, you're a child yourself. (Both speakers laugh) My daughter’s age. Why do you think it's important to have books like yours that are inclusive and that teach kids to embrace their differences? Why is that important, from you know, I think the age group of your book is what, four up till whenever you know. Four to eighteen, because anybody can read your book and identify themselves with it, it doesn't matter how young or how old they are.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  10:08

That's right, the reading level is second to fourth grade, but when we are marketing it, it is a children's book. But we also are talking to adults, people who haven't overcome their insecurity. And your question about why is it important to have these discussions and talk about it is because we start noticing as children, seeing differences, and you start noticing that you're not like someone else at a very young age, and I believe it's about as young as three, you start noticing that people look different than you. And I think if you don't have those tools, and you don't have those resources and understand that what makes you unique, and what makes you different, is actually a strength, not a weakness, that you can grow up to be an adult, harboring those same childhood traumas that kept you small before. And so if it's not addressed early on, you can continue on with the cycle and really not living your fullest potential. So the reason for having it as a children's brand is because I'm also speaking to the little girl, or boy inside grown adult s. So right now Erin is my child, Erin is my baby. That's who I’m rooting for.

 

Speaker: Maritere  11:18

I love it, I love it, because it also sparks the conversation or starts the conversation about embracing whatever uniqueness that is. You have a parent's guide as well, so everyone knows and it's very detailed and gives parents a lot of tools and ways to talk about this topic with their children. And I'm sorry, the noise that you hear if you hear it, is the guy that is cleaning our street is here. So there's a beeping sound going on, so I apologize about that. Today is Martin Luther King Day, I'm sure that he has, like my children and young adults like yourself, he has inspired so many. Do you have a favorite quote of Mr. King? And what is it?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  12:21

Yes, it's my favorite quote is Faith is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase. And it resonates with me, because I'm on this faith journey and on this journey to playing big, right, playing big and doing things that are outside my comfort zone. And it's difficult if you let be the uncomfortable thing hinder you from actually reaching your fullest potential. And so I'm strengthening my faith by each step, each step that I take, I trust that the staircase will light up. So I really love that quote, that resonates with me the most as far as the entrepreneurial journey, as far as just being, doing the thing that I was called to do. I think that really, it really rings true to my path right now.

 

Speaker: Maritere  13:10

I'm talking to Jennifer Vassel, and she is the author of I am unique book brand. And we're learning all about her books and her messages. What are three tips that you can share with parents so they can raise kids appreciating their differences? Whether it's a birthmark, a special need, a disability.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  13:36

I think the first tip is to diversify your kids bookshelf. And by diversifying their bookshelf, I'm not only talking about buying books that feature diverse characters, I'm also talking about buying books that are written by diverse authors who feature diverse characters. There's a lack of representation out there and I believe that you need to be a part of the community in order to tell the story authentically. And I have a resource on my website iamuniquebook.com, where I list 100 children's books that are written by diverse authors and feature main characters who are also diverse. But I definitely believe that representation needs to be accounted for on both fronts, not only on the pages but behind the scenes because kids otherwise will not know how far they can dream. And the second tip that I would say is to encourage self-reflection with your children. This has, I have never seen anything like this. We are in a global pandemic, we've been on lockdown for nearly a year and I know adults that are going through it, I can only imagine how children are feeling where they're not able to see their friends the way that they want to or hang out the way that they want to. But one thing that you can do as a parent is to set up zoom calls with their friends, with their classmates. It could be zoom, Skype, whatever your video conferencing tool of choice is, but get everyone together and have the children share something that is unique to them or something that they love about themselves. And they can share that, for example, one child might be like, I really, I love the fact that I'm good at art. And this past summer, I started painting and here's the artwork that I painted over the weekend. And you go around the room, and each child shares a bit of themselves and what that does is, it help kids to not only be reflective and share something that is unique to them, but then they also build that awareness and see, okay my peers have something unique about them too.

 

Speaker: Maritere  15:38

And they stay Positive, you know, it keeps them positivity going. And they're doing this during this time, I know we're all like wanting to be outside and wanting to be with our friends but this is a positive thing that is happening. So if that happens to him or her, it can happen to me as well.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  15:57

Exactly. And the third one along with that is to open dialogue, like encourage a safe space with your children, and have the top

 

Speaker: Maritere  16:11

You froze a little bit?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  16:17

I froze? Okay, how about now? can you?

 

Speaker: Maritere  16:21

Now you’re okay.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  16:23

Okay, what I was saying was, I was sharing was engaging in open dialogue. And the topics could be around the current events that are happening right now.

So we're in a global pandemic, for example, we are experiencing racial injustices, we saw what happened on the sixth. So there are different talking points that you can bring forth to the child and ask them, how are they feeling. And if you're not talking to them, they're getting that information elsewhere. So you want to create that safe space with them, and have that conversation, ask them how they're feeling. Give them background information, show them like this is what happens when people don't respect each other and don't respect different people's perspectives, and are judgmental, you give examples. And so what you're doing with that is building that trust with your child say, hey, I see you, I understand what you're saying, I'm not treating you like a child, I'm treating you like someone that I respect, and I trust and creating that open space or that safe space for them to ask hard questions or whatever is on their heart.

 

Speaker: Maritere  17:29

Yeah, and you know what it also it's an opportunity for parents to be honest with them and say, Hey, I know exactly how you feel. I feel the same way I'm afraid too, you know, but you are in a safe place, we're here to support you. And it just, I think it's very important for the young adults and teenagers to feel like mom and dad are there and they understand how they feel. It's kind of like acknowledging their feelings as well. What is next for the I am Unique Brand?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  18:06

Yes, so a lot of people think that I am Unique is just a book and it's so much more than that. We talked about the parent guide, we also have a Teacher's Guide, we have merch on our website. Our biggest project right now is adapting the book series into an animated series. So we're going to be pitching to streaming platforms early this year, so stay on the lookout for that.

 

Speaker: Maritere  18:30

I love it. I love it. And this a good time to make our announcement?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  18:36

Yes, it is. Do you want me to say it

 

Speaker: Maritere  18:39

Will you do me the honors?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  18:41

Yes so I'm really excited to announce that Mari and I have partnered up to share the I am Unique Book in Spanish. And we will be launching that this year, if you want to stay connected and be the first to know when it does launch, you can text IAUSpanish to 3377. Again, it’s IAUSpanish, no space  to 33777. And we'll lock you in and you'll be the first to know when it drops.

 

Speaker: Maritere  19:14

That's awesome. You know, I’ll do a little recap of our talk. And we will include that in there as well as your website and your Instagram so that everyone knows where to find you. I am very excited, you will be getting that within the next week. It's almost all done. The book is  a super darling story that we can all relate to. I love putting your English words in Spanish. It was super nice and the parent's guide also it's wonderful tool. So I'm very excited about having partnered with you in this and we can't wait to get out there and promote the book. And maybe have another live and talk about the book in Spanish. Before I let you go, what is your message to young adults out there about diversity and inclusion?

 

Speaker: Jennifer  20:16

My message to young adults would be to remain who you are still show up as yourself, as your authentic self, and keep showing up every day. And also respect other people's perspectives. You know, we're not all the same, we don't have the same views, we don't have the same backgrounds. But if you remain in a tight bubble, in a tight shell and you're only comfortable with the people that you grew up with, or the people in your close proximity, it's a disservice to yourself, because you're not allowing yourself to grow. So I would say respect other people's perspective while you stay authentically true to who you are.

 

Speaker: Maritere  20:54

I love it. You are an amazing young woman. I am very blessed to have met you and to be working with you I'm sure is not going to be the last time.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  21:05

I don’t think so.

 

Speaker: Maritere  21:06

Thank you for taking the time to be with us today. Of course, this is going into the IGTV and we will both share it on our pages and I'm excited to continue our relationship and please know that I support you 100%, anything that you're doing that we can promote here, we’re  happy to do that. So thank you everyone that joined, and we will see you next week Monday and kisses to you my dear.

 

Speaker: Jennifer  21:40

Thank You so much.

Speaker: Maritere  21:42

See you soon. Bye everyone.

Speaker: Jennifer  21:44

Thank You for having me. Bye.

Mari and Jennifer at a Friendship & Culture event in Santa Monica, CA. December 2018.

Mari and Jennifer at a Friendship & Culture event in Santa Monica, CA. December 2018.

We Secured Our First International Buyer!

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FUN FACTS:

Our founder, Jennifer Vassel, took 4 years of French in high school (don’t ask her how much of it she has retained, LOL).

2018: We launched the French version of “I Am Unique!”

2020: We secured our first international client, who ordered the books in bulk. Last week, we shipped this box all the way to France!

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We’re so grateful for the opportunity to share this message of self-love in another language. We’re working on translating the book to Spanish as well, so make sure you’re on our mailing list to stay in the know!

We haven’t been on a plane since February, so we’re definitely itching to travel and catch up to some of Erin’s destinations.

What are some places you’d like to visit once we’re out of this pandemic? Let us know in the comments!

How to Keep Kids Engaged in Reading While Learning at Home

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“Back to School” has a totally different meaning for most kids this school year. Currently, a number of parents are adjusting to their kids’ virtual at-home learning routine, where now, teachers are conducting classes online, in light of the COVID-19 pandemic.

While juggling home life, work life, and school life, it’s easy for incorporating a regularly scheduled reading routine to fall by the wayside. Did you know that if a child reads 20 minutes every day, they are exposed to about 1.8 million words of text every year? In this post, I’ll share 3 ways to keep kids engaged in reading - even during a pandemic and while learning at home.

Find books that cater to your child’s interest(s). If you’re having trouble getting your child to enjoy reading, half the time they’re just not interested in the content. If they’re into performing arts or sports for example, find books they can relate to and resonate with. While they’re learning at home, parents can use this time to introduce them to different genres and subject matters for exposure. A helpful resource for exposing kids to various topics is this reading list that highlights 100 diverse children’s books in the following areas: race/anti-racism, biographies, self-esteem, Caribbean/African diaspora, family/arts, and STEM. 


Incorporate reading and writing activities to boost reading comprehension. Read alouds are great for this. There are a number of authors and public figures taking to social media and reading their book live on Instagram and Facebook (check out @PBSKids on Instagram, for example). You could also follow your child’s favorite authors and consider reaching out to them directly to see if they'd be interested in hosting a virtual read aloud for their young readers.

Encourage your child to mail a handwritten note to their favorite author after reading their book. Have them include what they’ve learned, their favorite part(s) of the story, and ask a burning question. This will help develop their writing skills and improve their reading comprehension. Imagine the delight your child will feel when their favorite author writes back!


Use digital resources that will help parents supplement schools’ curriculum. In addition to remote learning, parents can incorporate interactive reading apps to supplement their school’s reading curriculum. Below are 3 apps that can help strengthen your child’s reading skills. All apps offer a free 30-day trial:

  1. Epic! is a digital library comprised of thousands of books for kids under 12. The app includes quizzes, read alouds, and interactive learning videos. 

  2. ABC Mouse makes learning fun. You can play games and go on adventures while you learn to read. You can also customize the characters.

  3. HOMER allows readers to have a personalized experience. Books and activities are tailored to the child’s reading level and interests with over 20 different topics to choose from.

Which one of these tips are you excited to try? Happy reading!

100 Children's Books Featuring Black Characters Written by Black Authors

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When we talk about diversity in children’s books, we often think about the lack of diversity in the characters. For example, based on the infographic below, there are more books written about animals than there are of people of color:

A lack of diverse characters is only half the problem, though. Who’s writing the story? Not us, according to this chart from 2017. Black, Latinx, and Native American authors COMBINED only wrote 7% of children’s books published in 2017. Seven percent. This tells us that not only are we not represented on the pages, when we are, we’re not telling our own stories.

Growing up, I didn’t see many children’s books out there with characters who looked like me. Additionally, I never knew writing could be a viable career path because I didn’t see anyone who looked like me doing it. When kids can see themselves in the content they consume, it opens up their minds to infinite possibilities. Imagine seeing a child’s eyes light up when they find out the author looks just like them. That happened to me a couple years ago when I did a reading at an elementary school. A little girl walked up to me and wrapped her arms around my waist. We met eyes and she said, “I want to read and write books just like you.” Representation matters. Without it, kids won’t ever know how big they can dare to dream.

When we talk about diversity, stopping at the product is only scraping the surface. Not only should we see ourselves on the pages, but we should see ourselves CREATING said pages, too. Our voices are brilliantly unique; the power of stories lie with the person who tells it

That’s why I’ve compiled a list of 100 children’s books featuring Black characters that were actually written by Black authors. Enjoy!

PLEASE NOTE: I’ve linked the books to sites where I found them online (e.g., Amazon, the publisher’s or the author’s website), but if you’re able to find them at your local Black-owned bookstore, consider supporting them! Here’s a list of Black-owned bookstores to support year-round.


Race/Anti-Racism

1. Woke Baby by Mohogany L. Browne

2. Antiracist Baby by Ibram X. Kendi

3. An ABC of Equality by Chana Ginelle Ewing

4. A Kids Book About Racism by Jelani Memory

5. Hey Black Child by Useni Eugene Perkins

6. Get Up, Stand Up by Bob Marley and Cedella Marley

7. Mixed Me! by Taye Diggs

8. Hands Up! by Breanna J. McDaniel

9. We March by Shane W. Evans

10. The Proudest Blue: A Story of Hijab and Family by Ibtihaj Muhammad

11. That Is My Dream! by Langston Hughes

12. Chocolate Me! by Taye Diggs

13. We Rise, We Resist, We Raise Our Voices by Wade Hudson & Cheryl Willis Hudson

14. I Am Every Good Thing by Derrick Barnes

15. M is for Melanin: A Celebration of the Black Child by Tiffany Rose

16. Ana and Andrew book series by Christine Platt

17. The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson 


Biographies

18. Harriet Tubman by Christine Platt

19. The Story of Martin Luther King, Jr. by Christine Platt

20. Oprah: The Little Speaker by Carole Boston Weatherford

21. Little Leaders: Bold Women in Black History by Vashti Harrison

22. Little Legends: Exceptional Men in Black History by Vashti Harrison

23. Hidden Figures: The True Story of Four Black Women and the Space Race by Margot Lee Shetterly

24. Barack Obama: Son of Promise, Child of Hope by Nikki Grimes

25. Black Heroes: A Black History Book for Kids: 51 Inspiring People from Ancient Africa to Modern-Day U.S.A. by Arlisha Norwood

26. Nelson Mandela by Kadir Nelson

27. Power of Her Pen: The Groundbreaking Journalist Ethel L. Payne by Lesa Cline-Ransome 

28. Ella Fitzgerald: The Tale of a Vocal Virtuosa by Andrea Pinkney

29. Malcolm Little: The Boy Who Grew Up to Become Malcolm X by Ilyasah Shabazz

30. Talkin’ about Bessie: The Story of Aviator Elizabeth Coleman by Nikki Grimes

31. A Likkle Miss Lou: How Jamaican Poet Louise Bennett Coverley Found Her Voice by Nadia Hohn

32. 101 Black Women in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics: Leaders in Black History by L.A. Amber

33. Before John Was a Jazz Giant: A Song of John Coltrane by Carole Boston Weatherford

34. I, Matthew Henson: Polar Explorer by Carole Boston Weatherford

35. Take a Picture of Me, James Vanderzee! by Andrea J. Loney


Self-Esteem

36. I Am Unique! by Jennifer Vassel

37. Sulwe by Lupita Nyong’o

38. Parker Looks Up: An Extraordinary Moment by Parker Curry and Jessica Curry

39. I Am Enough by Grace Byers

40. ABCs for Me by Melanie Goolsby

41. Riley Can Be Anything by Davina Hamilton

42. I Promise by Lebron James

43. Happy Hair by Mechal Renee Roe

44. Cool Cuts by Mechal Renee Roe

45. Skin Like Mine by LaTashia M. Perry

46. Being You by Alexs Pate

47. All Because You Matter by Tami Charles

48. I Know I Can! by Veronica N. Chapman

49. The Oldest Student: How Mary Walker Learned to Read by Rita Lorraine Hubbard 

50. You Can Do It! by Tony Dungy

51. I Believe I Can by Grace Byers

52. Beautiful Beautiful Me by Ashley Sirah Hinton

53. Bedtime Inspirational Stories: 50 Amazing Black People Who Changed the World by L.A. Amber

54. The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson

55. Dear Black Boy by Martellus Bennett

56. Muhiima’s Quest by Rahma Rodaah

Caribbean/African Diaspora

57. Calloloo: The Trickster and the Magic by Marjuan Canady

58. Callaloo: A Jazz Folktale by Marjuan Canady

59. Callaloo: The Legend of the Golden Coquí by Marjuan Canady

60. Fry Bread: A Native American Family Story  by Noble Maillard

61. Anna Carries Water by Olive Senior

62. A Tasty Maandazi by Kwame Nyong'o

63. My Rows and Piles of Coins by Tololwa M. Mollel

64. A Likkle Miss Lou: How Jamaican Poet Louise Bennett Coverley Found Her Voice by Nadia Hohn

65. The Boy from Nine Miles: The Early Life of Bob Marley by Cedella Marley

66. I Love You by Ziggy Marley

67. Baby Goes to Market by Atinuke

68. Catch that Goat: A Market Day in Nigeria by Polly Alakija

69. How the Leopard Got His Claws by Chinua Achebe

70. Blue Mountain Trouble by Martin Mordecai



Family/Arts 

71. Little Miss Dancey Pants book series by Kourtni Mason

72. Firebird by Misty Copeland

73. Dancing in the Wings by Debbie Allen

74. Freedom Soup by Tami Charles 

75. Grammy and Me by Tyrah Majors

76. Of Thee I Sing: A Letter to My Daughters by Barack Obama

77. Jonathan and His Mommy by Irene Smalls

78. Change Sings: A Children's Anthem by Amanda Gorman

79. Peekaboo Morning by Deloris Jordan

80. Bippity Bop Barbershop by Natasha Anastasia Tarpley

81. Double Bass Blues by Andrea J. Loney

82. Going Down Home with Daddy by Kelly Starling Lyons

83. Blue Moon: From the Journals of Mama Mae and LeeLee by Alicia Keys, Jessica Walton

84. Hip Hop Speaks to Children: A Celebration of Poetry with a Beat by Nikki Giovanni

85. My Pop Pop and Me by Irene Smalls

86. The Little Girl Who Lost Her Smile by Tiffney Cambridge

STEM

87. Abby Invents Unbreakable Crayons by Dr. Arlyne Simon

88. Building My Self-eSTEAM in Science by Yasmine Daniels, PhD

89. Sasha Savvy Loves to Code by Sasha Ariel Alston

90. Olivia’s Doctor Adventures by Dr. Ashley Denmark

91. Jada Jones: Sleepover Scientist by Kelly Starling Lyons

92. The Meteorologist in Me by Brittney Shipp 

93. The Magnificent Makers book series by Dr. Theanne Griffith 

94. Mae Among The Stars by Roda Ahmed 

95. Nola the Nurse book series by Dr. Sharmaine Lawson

96. Black Women in Science: A Black History Book for Kids by Kimberly Brown Pellum, PhD

97. Swift Walker: A Space Adventure book series by Verlyn Tarlton

98. Doc 2 Doc: Tony and Jace Learn About The Heart by Dr. Dale Okorodudu

99. Doc Like Daddy by Dr. Crystal Bowe

100. Bending Time (Adventures of Emery Jones, Boy Science Wonder) by Charles Johnson

A Letter To My Younger Self

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In honor of #InternationalDayOfTheGirl, I decided to write a letter to my younger self.

Dear Jennifer,

I know you feel alone and like no one understands you. I know you feel overlooked because you’re constantly labeled as “too shy” or “too quiet.” Know that I see you. God sees you. And soon—the world will see you. Know that you are special and no one can blow out the fire that’s within you.

It may seem as if everyone is accomplishing things before you, easily making friends, or finally finding their place in life. Keep running YOUR own race through it all, girl. No rose ever blooms before its time.

Everything will start making more sense soon. Even I still don’t have all the answers. But, remember this:

God is arranging people, places, and opportunities in your favor. You just have to BELIEVE.

I’ll be cheering you on every step of the way. I can’t wait for you to see all that is already yours.

Love,

Jennifer

[EVENT RECAP] #MommyBrainPlaydate

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On August 11, we participated in the inaugural #MommyBrainPlaydate powered by MOMMY BRAiN! This event was hosted at the lovely Snooknuk Cafe in Larchmont Village. We did a book reading and talked about the importance of embracing our uniqueness.

Couldn't make it? Don't worry - Dusty Roze produced a recap of the day:

Below are some of our favorite outakes from the day. Pictured below are the women behind the brands (from left to right):

Ravelle Worthington, founder of MOMMY BRAiN. Through her site and live events, you're able to connect with like-minded moms. Peruse her site and you'll find fun places to take your kids and product reviews from trusted sources.

Jennifer Vassel, founder of I Am Unique! We're sure you know her already (wink). But in case you don't, you can visit our About page.

Cheri Jacobs, founder of Snooknuk Cafe. This cafe/play place is any kid's DREAM. It features a magical indoor playground for kids and a performing arts studio with a top notch line up of classes. You can even host birthday parties here - just ask actor Lance Gross and singer Kelly Rowland!

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We couldn't get over how cute and yummy the Erin cupcakes were! They were provided by Celebrate by Shawn. Check them out for your next themed kid event - they even have a candy cart you can rent!

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#MommyBrainPlaydate was a hit. The kids were engaged during the reading, and later had fun playing and snacking on the cupcakes. One little girl was eager to snag a picture with Erin. Is it just us, or is the resemblance uncanny?!

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Make sure you stay close to MOMMY BRAiN, as they'll have other curated #MommyBrainPlaydate events for you and your littles to enjoy.

3 Reasons Why Representation Matters in Children's Literature

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With the work we're doing with "I Am Unique!,” we’ve noticed a need in the marketplace to create stories with representative characters that showcase their strengths and struggles. There’s something about being able to see yourself reflected in the content you consume – especially when you’re a child and your mind and worldview are being shaped every second of the day. If our stories are not told, then we assume the experience is not relevant to others and we begin to feel we are alone in the struggle. I’ve come to realize that we are never alone - we just need more representation in children’s literature (and beyond). Here are 3 reasons why.

Reading at Marcus Garvey Elementary

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Last week, we had the pleasure of partnering with the National Organization of Jamaican and Supportive Organizations (NAJASO) and read "I Am Unique!" to the students at Marcus Garvey Elementary School in Inglewood, CA. 

After the reading, the teachers let the kids out for recess. A few of the volunteers and Jennifer went out to join them. Some of the girls ran up to Jennifer to share that they, too have birthmarks and showed her where there’s were.

We brought some copies of "I Am Unique!" out and the girls were eager to read the story out loud.

It's so important for young people to see themselves positively represented in the content they consume. We are so grateful to be in a position to serve as an example for younger generations.